Honest question -
You put a lot of emphasis on a woman’s looks. Do you view us as mere sex objects ?
To answer your question, flea....
....other than what I see on your profile & selfie pics I really don’t know you.
Hence....I form this very limited mental image from them.
So I suppose I tend to ‘objectify’ based upon what little I know about you.
What I see are these photos of this attractive curvy woman all made up with make up on who looks like she could be in her 30s
I suppose that’s pretty one dimensional, but the Internet is one dimensional. You don’t really get a feeling for the person or experience them unless you actually get to meet them. You don’t really know them. I suppose you’re OK but its based upon a cursory glance on an Internet forum. I guess that’s why I’ve never liked online dating sites because everyone on them seems so remote and unreal. I’m pretty old school i guess.
I haven’t met you in person, we’re 1300 miles apart so its kinda far to get to know someone at that distance. I suppose I would form a completely different impression if we met...even just say hi, smile grab a coffee and then go our separate ways 5 minutes later.
Hope that answers your question.