I gotta give you credit because if I remember correctly the original divorce was ugly and resulted in some unsavory consequences.
If I am correct that's a hell of a big heart. Again, making me wonder what someone like you is doing consorting with filth on the left.
Yeah, he was very upset that I left him. He was pretty nasty for awhile, but our children suffered with the anger and when my grandson was coming along, I told myself that it wasn't going to be repeated for the new generation.
I just started being pleasant as possible when we were in each other's company. I thought it would help my children heal some....then when he got cancer, it hurt all of us. His family was estranged, his sons from his first marriage didn't have much to do with him. I always reminded my kids he was their dad, no matter what, so they were close to him.
He found out he had cancer from going to the ER after totaling his pick up truck. He called my son here at home, my son woke me to take him to the ER. They did some routine tests and some numbers came back odd, after the 5th CT s and some tests they ran, I knew it was something serious, but the referral to oncology for a diagnosis was devastating to my kids.
I helped them help him, took him to docs, etc.
After all, without him, I would have my two children and grandson. I forgave the past and moved on. We became friends again, pretty close actually, but only friends.
Forgiveness is a tremendous gift you give yourself and others. Holding on to old wounds, just lets them fester and continue to cause you pain.
Anyway, I do what I do because I love my people to the moon and back.
