Gold. 
What a desperate sad fuck he truly is...
I make a point of never chasing someone for too long for the sake of my own dignity and so I don't risk behaving like a stalker.
Some people, whether male or female, don't live by that rule unfortunately.
Malignant narcissists do not see it that way. It's entirely about ego and control. They are manipulators of the highest order. And abusers.
Everytime he has a break up....the police are involved, peoples jobs involved. He used police against his ex wife. Used them against the ex girlfriend. TRIED to use them against me.
When I spoke with his police department.....they KNEW him. They have a history with him and his dramatic break ups.
When he isnt occupied terrorizing some new woman...he swings around to his ex wife and tries to spark drama there. She told me when he finds a girlfriend she feels bad for the woman but is relieved because he leaves her alone.
If I were her? I would just shut him down entirely and change my number and go no contact. My second ex husband is a malignant abusive narcissists....and I left the state for years to get away from him and protect my daughter from him. I successfully won full custody and I eliminated him from our lives.
I know and I'm aware that people think that you should always make sure the child knows their other parent. And they should have a relationship. And normally I agree. My oldest has a relationship with her father. My 17 year old? No. Unfortunately he wasnt fit and I had to make sure he was gone out of the picture and away from her. It's not just okay to do this when the other parent is a malignant narcissistic abuser....its a duty and obligation to protect your child. I had some nasty things said about me over it. But I stand by it to this day.
Sadly, Poofers ex believes it's important for the kids to know their dad and she allows him access regardless of how unhinged, dishonest and abusive he is. So they've been exposed to his antics their whole life. They dont believe anything he says and it's just sad.
All these men do is use the kids to harrass and manipulate the mother.
They have no concept of genuine dignity, integrity or empathy. Other humans are props on the stage of the Poofer show.
