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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #20 on: January 15, 2019, 09:51:14 PM »
What does having a soul have to do with anything ?


The BG is a flame forum. Stuff like what Lemon posted gets twisted into ugly bullshit. I’ve known Lemon for years. If she’s not upset with me, why should anyone else be ?
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #21 on: January 15, 2019, 10:02:00 PM »



The BG is a flame forum. Stuff like what Lemon posted gets twisted into ugly bullshit.
I agree 100% but still not sure why someone would post this on a forum. Still grieving maybe?? Anyways, hope all is well Lemon even tho you never liked me. Sorry about your loss, may hey RIP
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #22 on: January 15, 2019, 10:28:03 PM »
What does having a soul have to do with anything ?


The BG is a flame forum. Stuff like what Lemon posted gets twisted into ugly bullshit. I’ve known Lemon for years. If she’s not upset with me, why should anyone else be ?

All I'm saying is that it might be helpful to have one place where someone like her can post about her loss, if she so chooses, to share with people that may have known her for a long time.

I didn't say you didn't have a soul.  I was addressing the lack of a specific space with you because you're an admin and IM hasn't posted on this thread.

I'm not upset with anyone.  This is about having access to a place without trolling a thing like a death in a poster's family.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #23 on: January 15, 2019, 10:31:16 PM »
I can have Joo add her to the coven
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #24 on: January 15, 2019, 10:37:45 PM »
I can have Joo add her to the coven

The Coven is a better idea, of course, but you need j00 for that.

For now, I put this here because it's heavily modded and I think most of our regulars will respect the content.  I'm not going into the reason I left it alone, not here. 
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #25 on: January 15, 2019, 10:40:22 PM »
For now, I put this here because it's heavily modded and I think most of our regulars will respect the content.  I did't move it at first even though I knew it to be genuine because BGz is an Anything Goes  board with minimal modding and I wasn't gonna tell her You Can't Put That Here when people can put almost anything there.

The Coven is a better idea, of course, but you need j00 for that.

What do you do when you want to allow for someone to have a peaceful sub-board but they aren't trustworthy enough to be in the Coven?

There's the rub.   There could be a general discussion board that's like the "serious discussion" board that has some parameters about what goes. Just a thought.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #26 on: January 15, 2019, 10:42:44 PM »
I’ve been wondering if maybe we should just have one forum for everything . Like VF


As for what you suggested, Oak...that’s been an issue for me from the start of this forum
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #27 on: January 15, 2019, 10:43:04 PM »
I don't know you, Lemon, but you have my condolences.

My own father's putting on his walking shoes as I write this so I feel for you.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #28 on: January 15, 2019, 10:44:16 PM »
The Coven?
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #29 on: January 15, 2019, 10:52:25 PM »
I don't know you, Lemon, but you have my condolences.

My own father's putting on his walking shoes as I write this so I feel for you.

I'm sorry to hear that. 

I wonder if one feels sort of like an orphan no matter one's age.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #30 on: January 15, 2019, 11:56:12 PM »
I lost my dad at 6:45pm Christmas eve of last year. It was sudden and totally unexpected. I rode with him in the ambulance to the hospital after he fainted in my home. He was stable in the ER and then all of the sudden the alarms started going off and the nurses ran to the area of the ER he was in which didn't allow people in. Even though there were about 6 other people in there I had a sickening dread that it was him they were rushing for.

I was right unfortunately.

This christmas eve I was in that very same hospital sitting in the same chair staring at the double gray doors reliving the whole experience in my mind step by step. Don't think you ever really get over it. When you have a loving parent like I did a piece of you dies with them. For sure.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #31 on: January 16, 2019, 12:17:41 AM »
No more chasing the old ladies around the old folkses home!  No more waltzheimers.

Eighty-five years young.  He loved to watch Billy Graham.  I sure hope he was saved.  :biggrin:

He’s with God and my dog now.  RIP Howard.  FDR to Trump.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #32 on: January 16, 2019, 01:03:33 AM »
I lost my dad at 6:45pm Christmas eve of last year. It was sudden and totally unexpected. I rode with him in the ambulance to the hospital after he fainted in my home. He was stable in the ER and then all of the sudden the alarms started going off and the nurses ran to the area of the ER he was in which didn't allow people in. Even though there were about 6 other people in there I had a sickening dread that it was him they were rushing for.

I was right unfortunately.

This christmas eve I was in that very same hospital sitting in the same chair staring at the double gray doors reliving the whole experience in my mind step by step. Don't think you ever really get over it. When you have a loving parent like I did a piece of you dies with them. For sure.

He lives in you from your cells to your soul.  I'm sure that counts for something for you and he as well.  His energy is still about, clearly.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #33 on: January 16, 2019, 02:23:58 AM »
Condolences also to Iron Monkey and MacGuffin. 

Losing a parent is rough.  So many things going on that we have to contend with.  Just yesterday I was just going through some papers my dad left and it brought up a whole host of hurts and fond memories.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #34 on: January 16, 2019, 02:28:45 AM »
My own father's putting on his walking shoes as I write this so I feel for you.
I like that way of viewing it.

My mother's putting on hers as well.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #35 on: January 17, 2019, 05:08:06 AM »
I agree 100% but still not sure why someone would post this on a forum. Still grieving maybe?? Anyways, hope all is well Lemon even tho you never liked me. Sorry about your loss, may hey RIP

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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #36 on: January 17, 2019, 05:16:14 AM »
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #37 on: January 17, 2019, 05:49:52 AM »
Not me

Well stop sniveling behind my couch!   :hiding:
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #38 on: January 26, 2019, 06:05:14 PM »
In two years I lost my mom, dad and my dog.

So I married a fat lady and bought her a bulldog.

It was cheaper than a Corvette and hookers.
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Re: My dad has left his building!
« Reply #39 on: March 14, 2019, 12:59:21 AM »
My mother's got on her walking shoes and is almost to the door.  *sigh*
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