Why women love fat guys

[Mel]

That article/study has to be bullshit...  It's trying to tell me that women prefer overweight men over not only tall men, but over fit/muscular men as well?  And by a huge margin at that?

Ya, I don't think so!

[Mel]

...maybe because most women have become fat too?

No doubt obesity is on the rise, especially in the West...

I still see quite a few women around here with Master Racey bodies, but here's the catch...  They are all usually taken.

However, when I attempted the Plenty of Fish years ago (Avoid.  Will lead to severe depression), there's sure enough plumpers available on there, that's for sure!  Often they'll label their body type as "A few extra pounds," but don't be fooled...  By using a 15 year old pic of themselves, or with the creative use of photo angles and whatnot, they can hide the fact that they're really land whales...  Just avoid dating sites altogether, if you want your sanity to remain intact.

[Mel]

I met the CEO of POF, MEL.
It's a She and in her 30s
btw she's taken too.

Of course she would be!

I remember when Markus sold the site for a cool $575,000,000!  Not a bad little return on something that wasn't too difficult for him to create!

[Mel]

The profiles on them seemed like mean, skanky bitches

A lot of them are ugly even in their profile pics.

That's because most of them are!

And here's the inherent problem...  Even the uggo chubbers get massive hits from men just looking for a little action.

Here's something interesting:  My Ex and I both had profiles up on there briefly at one point.  Both of us are reasonably attractive people.  Now, I could barely get responses even from 5/10 chubbsters (tried just for fun...  i don't 'do' chubbsters), yet when I asked my Ex, her inbox was filling up on a daily basis with hits from men.

So you see how the odds are on these sites, for men.  They don't work well for men.  In the end, we both shut down our accounts.  My reasoning was that it was too depressing.  My Ex, I believe, wasn't really into online dating thing in the end after all.

[Mel]

You all should be meeting nice folks IN CHURCH!!

I thought the exact same thing not too long ago...  Just happened to drive by one of the local churches when the congregation poured out, and I saw a wave of some pretty damn fine looking women with master racey bodies.

Now, I'm an Atheist (but generally have no issue with religion), but thought to myself, "That's the place!  That's where all the pretty blondes are hiding!"

The only issue is, is how long could I play the act of a 'Good Christian'?

[Mel]

Bad enuf have a female around to begin with let alone on that thinks fucking dinosaurs were here last week or so - I would be digging a hole out back

My Uncle dated a heavy-duty bible thumper in the 1980's after his first wife died in a MVA, but it was a very short lived relationship.

Although she was physically stunning, everything was 'bad' to her...  Certain music was 'bad'...  Going to the bar on Friday night to do some dancing to the live band was 'bad'...  Everything was 'bad'...

He tried to explain to her that not all in the world is inherently 'bad', but she was so indoctrinated that there was no use even trying with her.