And society shouldn't be structured that way.
I agree, it's painful to watch.
But dude, society ISN'T structured this way. What we are seeing is a degenerative condition where a previous social order is being broken down by any means possible, and chaos is the result.
To quote the Nobelist Bob Dylan, whose words from 1964 were unheeded by the power structure:
Don't stand in the doorway, don't block up the hall,
for he who gets hurt will be he who has stalled
the battle, and it's outside ragin'