Pictures of children and family members are absolutely NOT allowed to be posted.
If your picture is out on the web and you participate on flame or abuse forums, there is always a chance someone will find it and use it. In all my years on forums, Ive never known any admin to delete members pics, flattering or not. For example..I’ve given Freud and BEnzo very explicit pictures of myself that I’d rather not see posted. However, if they did decide to be grimey and post it, I wouldn’t expect anyone to delete it. That’s how this game goes.
Regarding Okie - dude, you’re not a bad looking guy. Nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, you remind me of my departed uncle ( God rest his soul )